Hello @Alexander Knox,
First off I believe you are in a decent spot or at least better then most that jump in to investing in Real Estate. You are also at the right place as there are so many knowledgeable people in this forum. Seems like you already know what you want to do since you are wanting to invest now as opposed to waiting to save for a more expensive home down the road. Option 1 seems to be where you are heading but you have to do what you feel in your gut no one is going to be able to make that decision for you but there is nothing wrong with picking peoples brain on your scenario.
I think it all depends on what you want to do and if you want to actually move or not. I don't believe either option is a bad idea. Of course the first option has a little more risk involved as it is out of state and option 2 as Jake stated you could house hack a duplex but not sure of Seattle's market to know how affordable it is to purchase a decent one as you stated it might not get you far there. I'm form Kc and our market is getting very hot for out of state investors as your money goes way further then in some big markets. As you probably were already informed by your connection here. Hopefully your connection has a good network here to help you with everything that you need to be comfortable with investing out of state. I wouldn't mind being a connection for you here as well and answering any questions that you may have just send me a pm. I do know that in Kc,Ks you would be able to put that down on a nice duplex and it could be cash flowing well or you could buy a SFH out right but then you wouldn't have any leverage with the bank just a home with equity and cash flow. Just depends on your overall goals cash flow, leveraging to acquire more properties sooner or buy and hold for long term.
Hopefully you get some more responses that help and hope this helps. At the end of the day you have options and it's always good to have options. I just recommend sleeping on it and take the advice given and then trust your gut and jump!!