@Maurice Bunn
There is a difference between support and involvement or participation.
My wife supports me as a I take on new music projects and students when teaching music. I equally support her as she grows and develops in the debt collections world. We share our experiences and frustrations, and help each other grow and see difference approaches to solving problems.
Neither of us gets too deeply involved in the others' daily work though. Wendy doesn't write my lesson plans or do my practicing. I do not run her programs or manage her projects. We are not active participants in each other's daily work related activities.
Wendy and I decided that we want to get into real estate investing (initially as buy & hold folks) because we both want financial freedom from the 9 - 5 job. We equally recognize the skill sets we have, and that those skill sets compliment each other very well.
I started looking into REI about two years ago. I'd share a little about it with Wendy. I also shared with her that my ultimate goal is to "put her out of a job." It is not that I do not want her to work. That is her decision. I just do not want her to "have to work" because we need the money. Those who need the money force themselves to stay at jobs and in careers they do not like. I don't think the approach was very tricksey. We desire to do great things for other people and our community, and we do not want the 9 - 5 job to interfere with our lives. Today, the 9 - 5 interferes a lot. We believe we will work together as REIs, break our dependence on the job, and do great things for others.
Hope that helps
I'm curious... are you asking for yourself? Or is this a question you hear a lot?