Originally posted by James Vermillion:
I am one of the "guru haters" on this site and do not shy away from my stance whatsoever. I put guru hater in quotes because that might be how some people see my view, not because it is the truth. One thing to remember is this is a forum with many people reading, and it is very difficult to give advice to individuals unless you know all of the circumstances surrounding the situation...well that rarely, if ever happens. So, you have to give the best advice possible based on what you know.
I honestly believe most people are wasting money when the pay for guru programs, so when a new member comes to BP asking for advice I recommend they keep their money tight, at least until they learn a little bit about this business and take the time to research the program and people behind the program they are about to spend their money on.
Have a been sarcastic and even made a few witless comments...probably, but it is not because I hate all real estate investing "gurus", I just do not like seeing people make mistakes before they even get started. I am sure there are some great programs out there, and if someone has done their due diligence and is confident the program is the best use of their time and money, I wish them luck. However, I will continue to advice against people spending thousands of dollars they often do not have to spend on a program that may not teach them anything.
Hi James Vermillion (that's odd, the "at sign" from your name doesn't show - oh well) and all readers of BP...
REI IN A BOX?
IN HINDSIGHT, I would have taken a different route to my REI education. HOWEVER, I did learn a lot from @j. scott scheel (hey, Joshua Dorkin, is the mention function a li'l buggy? i can't hail j scott scheel - a member here) thru his commercial RE seminars. he was fair and not so hype-y, when you compare him to the guru bunch, in his promotion of courses.
My reason for going to seminar world way back when was for similar reasons others did/do: i wanted to hit the ground running with the "proper" guidelines for evaluating property. i was hoping for a road map... a business plan in a box. i think this is similar to those who look for a training coach to get fit. no one needs a coach or trainer to lose weight, get healthy, etc. especially when you're the one doing all the work to get to that physical fitness you seek.
HINDSIGHT: 20/20
The reality of it is what I originally had hoped to learn in 5 days, I eventually came to understand in about 30-45 days of daily doing.
I coulda, shoulda, woulda spent the 5 days reading BP forums, listening to podcasts, and selected a few books from amazon for my foundation material.
Even the tools that are available today (and back then) aren't any good until you really understand the fundamentals. THEN, the tools are good for saving time - assuming they are working properly. The allure of guru's and their systems is the hope to follow a streamlined system ... the hope for the quickest path to riches.
WHO RIPPED WHOM OFF?
Maybe it's more an ethical question or is it a business question(?)... is it truly a waste of money when someone willingly pays for whatever package/system/house? :)
I think the value is best determined after proper DD (due diligence)! Just like buying a car or a house or a product/service, it's wise to take time to do the research before spending a large sum of $ towards your desired outcome. BUT if you choose to go with your gut, and you spent 20k for what you only later EVENTUALLY find out that you could have spent 20days reading BP, then NO ONE ripped you off. This is where we need to exercise some self-responsibility. come on, no one told you that they were the only and best way to making money... and even if they did, why would you choose to believe them? again, your personal choice. but..but.. they told me that I can make millions investing in commercial and with their guidance... sure, of course they did... and of course they're the best and only place to go to...
In the land of opportunity and we, the people, who know there are so many choices, maybe we need to exercise some critical thinking. I admit that I was enamored by the presentation and then the herd mentality guidance of (1 + guru + 20k = success) simplistic formula. only after eventual a$$ backwards DD and some critical thinking after the mass hypnosis did I realize other (better) paths of learning what I learned.
In most cases, including mine, I ripped myself off... I sold myself, just like most everyone who chose the guru/package/seminar did. I chose the illusion of the "shortcut" (that's what i believed, they didn't tell me it was a shortcut).
IF I ONLY KNEW THEN WHAT I KNOW NOW
ya, the best way to get to the above subtitle is by doing your dd before investing in anything.
i certainly learned the more expensive way (in time and money). was it worth it? I have nothing to compare it to... i have no what-if path to contrast. I've learned to look before i leap - where it deals with parting from a lump sum at least! the point is that I've learned the lesson of DD... and sure, tuition fees vary from person to person for that lesson. but if it's not this lesson you pay the price, there's a lotta other lessons that people will eventually pay "the price" for. ;)