@Account Closed
I'm sure that I'm not alone in saying "I feel your PAIN!" I can feel it as I read your post and have to sympathize with you. Sales and selling techniques vary across the marketing realm of everything there is out there.
Let me give you this quick example: Weight Watchers. Weird I know, but hear me out.
They don't sell magic food and don't provide magic pills or a magic program geared toward achieving weight loss. What they provide, and in my opinion why they achieved so much success (and I'm not up to speed on their current success/failure) is because they provided ACCOUNTABILITY.
Follow me here...
If you KNOW you have to step on the scale at Weight Watchers on Monday, you can walk right past the donuts.
SO... in my opinion, what some of the guru programs don't have is accountability. I'm not going to bash those guys as I really don't know much of their programs as I've VERY QUICKLY come to realize that there never has been and never will be a silver-bullet to being wealthy or losing a couple of pounds... BOTH of these require HARD WORK, some frustration (trust me: YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE) and COMMITMENT to seeing it all the way through.
Keep pressing forward, get creative, but whatever you do, DON'T GIVE UP!
MASTER the niche you've chosen...
This is something that early on I personally did VERY WRONG... I wanted to do everything and anything real estate related. I wasted a great deal of good energy on topics that required tremendous amount of more knowledge. After re-assessing, I went back, found what I felt would be the best suit for my personal style of real estate investing and decided to FOCUS - Follow that One Course Until Successful.
Keep bidding...
Keep crunching numbers...
Keep looking...
You'll be rewarded...
It is worth the effort...
There is an entire website (www.biggerpockets.com) dedicated to help you achieve it!