Took my husband 15 years to get on board. It was always an argument. He was never on board unless he saw up to 90% of the final product. He was always the skeptic. But, I know what I want and I do it to prove people wrong because that's what makes me successful at achieving my goals.
I was interested in real estate since age 24. We just got married and I tried to get him excited about it. But, he was always the guy that needed the stable monthly income so he worked a 9to5 and never cared about my interest with investing RE.
My first attempt at real estate was buying a bank owned fixer upper using my mother's credit. Fixed it up. Got equity out. Then, got persuaded by my husband to use the money to buy him heavy equipment. He promised me he'd be able to make the money back quickly. The equity was supposed to be used to build a second home on the fixer upper property. I had the permits and everything.
Well, 12 years later, he hasn't yet replenished the building fund to build that extra home and the heavy equipment business sucked us dry.
During this same time, I went back to work, which was hard as a mother of 3 young children. But, I always kept real estate in mind. 10 years since that time, or more, I was able to persuade a seller to owner-finance her fixer upper and started to renovate. Although it took us a longer time to finish the project since we didn't have the lump sum to get it done as quickly as possible. And, my husband always argued about spending money on more materials for the home. It was a tug of war.
But, I'm happy to report, we finally finished, and it has appraised at more than double the value we paid for it.
I told my husband, he is not going to distract me ever again, from pursuing real estate investing. So, he better get on board. We wasted all those years. Now, my children have graduated from high school and I tell them that real estate is the best way to go from the beginning. Make it a career.
I'm closing soon on the home I just rehabbed (refinance) and the equity will be used to purchase and build on raw land which I intend to sell. Then I plan to take out a fix-n-flip on my first home. Which I also intend to sell to propel my real estate investing to the next level.
Stay strong to your real estate goals! Stay true to your word! Keep Focused on the end goal! which is freedom.