I agree with so many people in this post. The main thing keeping me back is ME! We all make a lot of excuses but if there is a will there is a way. when I first began researching the biggest hurdle was a down payment, lack of knowledge, lack of a network, yadayadada but just by finding the time to do these things you can oversome these hurdles.
In 3-4 months, I've learned what I thought would take me years, I've met great people and connected with great minds, I've asked questions and got them answer.
I began with NYC is such an expensive market, how will I ever get a 20% down...its impossible (::sarcasm:) then I broke it down. I expanded my backyard to an hour radius, decided to leverage a 3.5% FHA 203K, and heavily considering using a loan from my 401k as a downpayment.
Now im still working on alternative down payments but at the end of the day I have learned that most of the excuses we create can be dealt with, they are just opportunities to solve problems.