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6 November 2015 | 20 replies
So trust in their realtor dictates the same will be true, though there may be a little more wiggle room based on emotion and need)After the first 45-60 days they will be looking at their first reduction, but still hopeful.
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10 March 2016 | 11 replies
Better to stay within the numbers that make sense rather than get emotional & buy way too high just because you wanted to win, lol.
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30 October 2015 | 4 replies
And don't get emotional...that will kill you.
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26 November 2015 | 21 replies
In the beginning I used to buy emotionally and it took a couple of deals to figure out how to not buy emotionally.
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3 November 2015 | 101 replies
I work for a temporary agency and had this said to me and my first thought was.... it is a REAL job.
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23 March 2016 | 16 replies
@Annette Ammarell you may have too much emotion invested in this one.....If you are new to investing, I will say walk away from that money pit.
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8 November 2015 | 7 replies
Many investors mail to absentee owners as these don't have an emotional attachment to the property like owner occupants.
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3 November 2015 | 1 reply
Tell your emotions to take a chill pill, and they can get all scared again when you decide to actually do the buying yourself.
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22 January 2016 | 11 replies
This is one of the reasons so much miscommunication happens in the world today.In my version, there are 4 main personality languages. 1)Emotional action taker (35% of population)2)Relationship builder (35% of population)3)Data gatherer (15% of population)4) Competitor (15% of population)Each one has their positives and negatives, their own quirks and their own language.You could literally say, "good morning," to them and each personality would hear something different.
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3 November 2015 | 16 replies
Hi @Bill Tyler No legal advice at all, and your emotional attachment may be completely different than my thoughts :) You could contact the other 15 heirs and see if they all wanted to pay $200 and do something together with the land (sell/invest/build/make a park for neighborhood kids/give to the local Lions club)Keeping in mind that with 15 of you even at $18000 the total is $1200 each if you sold at market rates.