@Tyler W.
There is nothing easy about the changes you will have to make to gain back your life. Yep, that is right, I said gain back your life. Because right now every single moment that you are living and breathing you are getting further and further in to debt to someone else.
None of this going to be easy.
Move into the cheapest place you can find. Do a work trade for rent, if at all possible. Pick up one or two jobs, and in the meantime pick up odd jobs off of craigslist. Market what skills you have to anyone, ANYONE, that can use them.
Get creative. The ability to be creative will serve you well in all areas of your life including real estate.
And in the meantime, while you are working like a dog, look for a seasoned investor who needs a little help even if it is licking yellow letter envelopes. Listen. LISTEN. He or she is full of advice and wisdom. It may be a phone call you that you overhear or simply observing the zip codes he or she is focusing on that may become a game-changer for you.
Save. Eat ramen noodles. Walk everywhere or take the bus to save on gas. Again, each cent counts. Get aggressive in paying down your bills, and buy back your independence.
You want to be free, don't you?
Work hard, the rest will follow!
Good luck! (From someone who has been there/done that) ;)