Ok Antonio,
After sitting here for the past 30 mins reading this whole post I have a few things that could help, and I say these with a smile:
1) STOP........Take a breath......really, do it. You are already where you are and looking at making it better so just relax so you can do step 2
2) FOCUS.....your thought process is like a bowl of spaghetti (mmm, makes me hungry) mixed with frustration. I understand and sympathize but you will get nothing accomplished in your current stressful mindset. Believe me, it is jumping off the page and I've been there.
3) YOU ARE AMONG FRIENDS....everyone has great advice that fits your current situation, however, you need to be able to see through the words on the page to the actual meanings of what they are saying. I have a couple of suggestions to help you myself and I will try to lay it out as easy as possible to get, hopefully it's not Greek (I don't even know Greek so that would be awesome if it is)
My suggestions:
1) Read "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" by Robert Kyosaki. Stop everything your doing and read that book, however long it takes (took me 3 days). It will definitely give you perspective on life, finances, education (he's against it also), and business. A great read!!!
2)After reading that, this next point will make sense. Use your degree to supplement your income. If you are an accountant (I thought I read that) start getting clients on the side, (not from your employer) and build a business. Start small but start. Find out what others are charging and be competitive, but think of what a couple of weekly clients may do to your current income. Market yourself to be successful.
3) Read the startup guide here on BP. It covers all the important aspects on REI and it will answer alot of questions. If after reading it you still have questions they will be more specific and you will know more of the direction you are going.
4) Don't buy a personal residence in your current situation, IMHO. That would be throwing $$ out the window when your ultimate goal is to generate income. Buying a duplex/triplex/fourplex (Multi Family) is a great solution. That was excellent advice!! The FHA loan situation was also awesome. You would be wise to follow up on that and investigate it on your own. To find them contact a local agent. My local agent has me connected to the MLS and I enter my own searches and can find all sorts of properties including MFH.
5) Find a local REI club. Local resources are a must. Networking in person goes along way with people. There you can also find connections to help you with situations in your current market, as every market is unique and we can only give you general thoughts and figures. As far as comps tulia.com, zillow.com just as a couple.
Remember, YOU are the person that determines your destiny. What you put into it is what you will get out. I can not count the number of books, courses I bought, sites I subscribed to, Audio clips, and other areas of REI I have looked into. You have to read, focus, and decide. then and only then can you STEP. You are already where you are. IMHO the first thing you need to do is relax, focus, and decide. I don't mean a plan on paper, I mean in your head and soul. Take a small amount of time to do that and you'll see what will happen. Opportunities and solutions do jump out at you when your in the right mind set. I'm only able to say this because I lived it and I have seen the amazing difference. And remember, NOTHING worth anything happens overnight.
These are just my $.02 of tips. You definitely sound motivated. I think you'll have a great success in whatever you decide to do, one step at a time. Good Luck. Hope this helped.