@Brian Legg Keep it up Brian. The hardest part is starting. You will always have people that dont support you but as long as you and your wife are on the same page you will be perfectly fine. I know you said you listen to the podcasts often so like they say. They come across tons of problems. This allows you to hopefully not make those same mistakes.
Also I am a Lakewood investor and started my real estate journey here and am house hacking. It is an older house you are right but it is beautiful. It does attract millennials but it also attracts recent college graduates such as myself way back when that want to live in this lovely city.
Although if it makes you feel better Parma is also a great area and if you know that area. Stick to what you know to get your feet wet. The Parma SFRs and multis in Parma are cheaper also.
Let me know if I can help you answer any questions. I see myself as a newbie as well. Im trying to break into my first BRRRR. Scary stuff but its worth it!!