Hey @Rivy S. I really appreciated reading your post about balancing work, family, and investing. This has been the biggest challenge for me since I started investing (only a year ago). I work as a registered nurse and have two small kids (3 and 1) and trying to find time to devote to REI is challenging and usually leaves me feeling guilty because it's taking time away from my kids. It's super hard to find a good balance.
I've always been a very ambitious person who thrives under pressure. I am happiest when I'm learning new things and working on new projects. So I believe that I am a better mom and wife when I'm able to work on my passion projects that are fulfilling to me. I believe that my girls will benefit from watching me work hard on these goals and hopefully it will help them be successful in their lives as well.
Of course, finding a healthy balance is very important, and it's something I work on everyday. But I believe that if you have a passion for REI, you should continue to pursue it. I believe your children will benefit from watching you work hard towards your goals.