@Rohan Anthony Soltau
Although I'm not a shy person, I'm a very private person by nature.
When I got into finance after college, I got all the typical advise you see in books, podcasts, etc; Learn about sales, read books on getting out of your comfort zone, go join a toastmasters group, go to meetings and meet different types of people. Although these are not bad advise, one thing I wish I had known, was to play to my strengths.
There are numerous books/courses that talk about the major personality types. I learned about S.T.A.R.
Structure/Stability
Technical/Theory
Action
Relationship
We all have some aspects of these traits, but usually 1 or 2 will be dominant. My most dominant trait is "A". Then "S".
What all these courses/books teach, is to try to get good at "R" and "A," so I tried my hardest to develop those skills, when I was not naturally good at them. That's like telling a football player, you all have to get great at being a quarterback, or a linebacker, etc. Of course you can always improve on your skills, but no matter how much you improve, not everybody is designed to be great at certain specific tasks.
My real estate business partner is a social butterfly. She can meet people and within 1 minute, get their whole life story. I'm not even exaggerating. I couldn't do that in a million years. On the other hand, I can spend 10,000 hours with her to try to get her to be more organized, plan things out, operate from seeing the bigger picture, she couldn't do it. So we work as a team. I source all the deals, using virtual assistants (something I've put in place because of my "S" trait) and when we have a good potential lead, she's the one who handles the people.
Real estate, as in sports or anything else, is a team sport. You'll need the "A's," you'll need the "R's," etc., but you don't have to try to be what you're not naturally good at. So for 8 years when I was in finance, I was spending my time & energy trying to develop competence in areas I was lacking, and would mentally beat myself up, thinking I wasn't cut out for that industry, when my real issue was, I was working on the wrong areas.
When I realized this and started bringing others who had skills sets I didn't have, and began specializing in what I was naturally good at, my income tripled and quadrupled. Yes, do keep delving into books, podcasts, meetings, etc, but find out what you're good at (take one of those personality tests), and become an expert at it, while surrounding yourself with people with other qualities.