@Brian Ellis
I'm with you. This is something I've struggled with since seeing the Cashflow Quadrant at a seminar once years ago; trying to make that jump from the left side of the Quadrant, to the right side. For financial reasons, yes of course, but more importantly, to face my demons & see if I have the guts to climb the Mt. Everest of my life. To know I did it.
Starting out, you're doing everything and the energy it takes to do the necessary things that's required, takes self motivation, which isn't easy. But what really takes a toll is, when things aren't going the way you had envisioned; when you're dealing with unforeseen issues that come up; stressful situations, projects taking longer, spinning too many plates, budgeting issues, family & personal things that come up, till your emotional bucket is running on empty.
It's true what Kiyosaki said in his book, Cashflow Quadrant; "This book is about the mental, emotional, and educational process I went through in following my rich dad's advice."
Most people are aware that they need to study, read, listen to podcast to get started, but I'm not sure what percentage of people really know the mental & emotional change they need to go through to accomplish what they want to achieve, and if they have the fortitude to stick it out.
You ask a great question; where does rest come in? Anytime I've tried to apply what I would read online, or hear on podcasts, about having a balanced life, taking time off, it just hasn't worked for me. You can take time off, but if your mind is elsewhere because you feel like you have a purpose, trying to reach milestones to get closer to the life you've visualized, taking time off only creates dissonance because you're putting that vision on hold. I'm not saying taking time off doesn't help you recharge. Just making a point that it doesn't necessarily bring enthusiasm if you're thoughts are elsewhere. But that's just my view.
The flip side to that is, even if you're working 80-100 hours a week, if you can see progress, things moving, getting closer to your goals, the anticipation & excitement of it can recharge your emotional battery like no vacation can.
With that said, there are few things that have helped me disburse my load the past year, revitalizing my enthusiasm.
1) I hired VAs overseas to do administrative tasks that bogged me down. I put in a filtering process to weed out candidates. By nature, I don't like to repeat myself, so I used Filmora (free) to record instructional videos on what they need to do. If a VA didn't work out and I needed to find someone else, I just had to send them links to those videos for them to get up to speed. At this point, I may chat with my VAs once, maybe twice a week on Google Hangouts.
2) I've connected with a few, good, like-minded people on BP. People who have similar goals and drive. Working on projects, brainstorming, collaborating, bantering back & forth as a team really helps bring synergy to what you're doing.
3) I've been thinking about playing volleyball again, and just got a set of golf clubs so I can incorporate some physical activity into my schedule.
Do you have people going in the same direction you're headed?