Howard,
That is actually the topic of discussion for this weekends event (see signature) but ill spill some of the beans for you.
If you were straightforward with your agent and they knew you were going into a deal blind they shouldnt be upset at all. They knew dang well they were going to have to do work for nothing and a lot of agents know thats ultimately their job and it happens every day. BUT if you are working with just any ol realtor then they sometimes dont know better, thats why my realtors are also investors! ;D
The consequences for falling out of escrow would be you lose your earnest money and whoever you put the offer in with you will not like you so much for having to back out. (Hopefully its not a bank) one fall out of escrow is ok, lose 1k or whatever you wrote in there. But doing it 2-10 times in a row then shame on you. Give me the money instead!
Now if youve covered all of your bases and you put and or assigns after your name then you can wholesale the deal to someone (maybe me or some people i know) and now youve earned money from a deal you would have never been able to do in the first place :p
Also if you have offers locked on properties that are just too good to be true and you wont lose money no matter what, then think about hard money lenders and begging friends, family, colleagues, your local REI meetings ;) etc. for money. Some of them will double check your numbers and lend to you at x% just because they might only have 20-40k to invest right now and cant find a deal (we help people in those situations as best we can) you would need to get probably 3-4 of thoes people to get your full funding but hey, if it works it works.
As for the chicken and the egg problem, i dont really see it as one. In my opinion just do both at the same time! (I call it the big bang theory xD) just find deals and find strategies to get your money and slowly tweak your strategy until it fits you. Youll learn more by doing both at the same time then you will doing one at a time and you might get lucky and line up your financing right as you go into escrow or vice versa and if all else fails you have the exit strategies i just told you.
Now if you dont know how to find deals or find funding etc then thats a whole nother story that i cant post here because i would be promoting myself and my post would get removed ;) but you get the hint LOL.
If you have any questions feel free to message me or use any of the contacts in my signature to reach out and lets talk :)
Mr. Sunshine