Hey @Benjamin Cohen. Welcome! I'm in the Triangle area of NC. I started out in your shoes. We did some research on what multifamily mentorship programs had a good track record and joined one we really love!
You should continue to attend networking events. There aren't as many in NC focused on multifamily, unfortunately. But, we like to travel to other states to meet other multifamily investors, and that has helped us tremendously. Investing in relationships will have an infinite ROI! I can recommend some great ones for you if you'd like. Let me know!
I'd also encourage you to research some mentoring groups if you want to do 100 units and up.
Ask around and surf on BP to see what other people have to say about the group. Here are some quick tips for vetting a mentorship program:
1. Do you have direct access to the main investor, or are you working with a coach who works under them? You'll want direct access to the main person.
2. Will the main investor partner with you on deals and allow you to leverage their track record with brokers and investors? This is a must. This will help you gain credibility with investors and brokers.
3. Does the main investor have a large portfolio? (7k+ units)
4. Does the group have a good reputation? Culture? Collaborative environment? Do people in the group work together?
I hope that helps. Good luck!