Originally posted by @William Walker:
To quote the infamous philosopher Kanye: “what you think I rap for, to push a f***** Rav4?”
it gets boring reading the posts on here where everyone boasts about how they still drive a 1996 accord but have 20 rental properties. I’m in this to get money to buy things I enjoy. When I have money - maybe I buy an investment property, maybe I go on a nice vacation. Maybe I buy the 3k traeger grill knowing it is never going to provide any return. Find a balance that makes you happy.
I feel your pain. I too would like to enjoy nice things from the fruits of my labor and not be running a old car agian but thats my current reality haha. I currently am selling my nice truck to go lean for a few years and get started after reading set for life by scott. I'm going all in because i want to get out of the rat race at a job where all my co workers hate life.
I made a post once on facebook outlining all the nice things I hoped to accomplish and own one day and you wouldnt believe the backlash and judgement I got for it. I posted something along the lines of "my official wish list" which I envisioned that I had a billion dollars and could buy virtually anthing. My list consisted of 2 vehicles....a nice work truck like i have now and a car which is a nissan 370z. which for those of you who don't know is a sports car that can be had for 20k or less which is pretty humble considering there are corvetts and such rolling around town for 100k or more. then there was the house. a cabin out in the woods and a little garage. a few more odds and ends but that was basically it.
I had people calling me an idiot for wanting nice things. I refuse to feel guilty or bad about my wish list. especially since they dont know how hard ive had to work for the things i already own. so my point is to set a goal. reach that goal and don't feel bad about indulging in your rewards of hard work. especially if you've taken a while to get there and sacrificed your weeks. but always remember to stay conservative. I know I could someday buy perhaps a more expensive car but I don't need it. i'll settle for a cheaper sports car and the journey towards getting it will be what really matters most. and for now my 1990 honda crx serves just fine as my sports car since ive learned to be happy no matter what!
synopsis. keep working hard and never stop learning! set your sights on what you want and don't settle. but also dont over indulge. I like to spend no more than 10 percent on fun stuff each paycheck and lately ive buckled down to nothing in my fun account. saving all I can to build up a cash resurve for our first house hack.