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Updated about 3 years ago,
This Is Why You Shouldn't Have A Mentor
Contrary to popular belief mentors can't help you become successful.
At the very best they can help someone who was already going to be successful make a few less mistakes. But that's much much different than what most newbies believe.
We as humans are always looking for a fast track or silver bullet to get us to where we want to be immediately. There seems to be a universal belief that if you can just find the right "mentor" he/she will give you all the secrets and give you the tools required to be successful from their vast experience.
Another wild misconception is...the reason people fail who've worked with a mentor is they quit, or didn't have the work ethic, or they did't "take action." While this maybe in part to blame it's not the main culprit for failure.
I think the root cause of the problem is an industry accepted narrative that knowledge is power. Armed with the right knowledge you can achieve anything. This is complete nonsense.
Let me quickly give you the knowledge required to be a successful real estate investor.
1. Buy a property for less than what it's worth
2. Fix it up
3. Sell it or rent it out
That was literally the extent of my knowledge when I started REI in 2012. I'd never even owned a house before, let along an investment property. I didn't know what tax liens were, no clue how to get a mortgage, barely had an idea of what a property manager did.
But I was immediately successful.
Why? I definitely wasn't smarter than anyone else, didn't work harder, wasn't lucky. So what was my secret? The reason it was easy for me is because of two things.
1. I knew how to manage people
2. I knew how to problem solve
Prior to getting into REI I was an entrepreneur, in fact, I've never had a 9-5 gig. In the 15 years prior to REI I started/ran several companies and thousands of employee's. This was my edge.
My point is, regardless of how much you learn from a "mentor" about real estate investing, if you can't problem solve and manage people you won't succeed. And if you know how to problem solve and manage people you'll most likely succeed with or without a mentor.
You can get all the info you need to start REI with about an hour of research on google. But unfortunately you can't get what you need to be a successful REI on google or from a mentor. It comes from doing.
Don't get me wrong, a mentor has value, just not to newbies. If you've already successfully invested, or have the personal skills required, someone with more experience can definitely give you useful knowledge on how to improve and scale. But they'll never be the difference between success and failure.
The best advice I can give newbies is to start small and learn the skills required (manage people/problem solve). Once you've learned these skills then start REI where the stakes are bigger.
It sounds crazy but start flipping cars. It's literally the exact same process minus the leverage. Buy an ugly car that has potential, fix up the interior/exterior, fix any mechanical issues (just like you would a house) and flip it. You'll learn everything you need to know, while risking $5,000, not $50,000.
Good luck, and I look forward to vigorous debate. ;)
George