At the time I had a bad feeling about it but decided to give them a chance.

However it feels pretty standard with inventory.

I'm curious, Is this PM out of touch with reality OR on how rental property owners, that don't self-manage, feels?

What made you interested in investing in this type of deal?

If you would like to hear more about our market, please feel free to reach out.

You are highly unlikely to curb the tenant's behavior because:1) It seems they've been doing what they want for a while and now feel entitled2) Your post shows you don't have the assertiveness necessary to deal with this situationSo, recommend you either hire an attorney to start the eviction process or handle a PMC.

What made you interested in investing in this type of deal?

It made it easy to forget to take them out on move outs and there were a lot of duplicate and expired codes in there before we switched systems.

Online Courses and Webinars: Platforms like Udemy, Coursera, and BiggerPockets offer courses specifically tailored to new real estate investors.

and how he likes to know that I respect that he's the captain of the ship, and that I trust him (even when sometimes feel that I'm right, it'll still be ok for me to let it go & leave it to him); and how important it is to him that he thinks I'm provided for, protected, loved,  & even pleased & honored to be his wife / his first mate & even his cheerleader /.... and as time has passed, I realize it's OK for me to let go of the illusion of control that I thought I had; and how nice it feels to me to be able to relax and be taken care of;And how what a blessing it is to have a good man who wants to provide, protect, love and lead / be the head of our household;  and how that for many [most¿] men that I've ever known not feel like they are being disrespected, or manipulated, or undermined (esp. not by their wife).