There are many twists and turns in regards to understanding a trust and it's function.  

I gently explain that the aunt owes more on the home than it is worth in its current condition and unfortunately buying is not an option for me. 

I kid you not,  a cardboard box set gently  AGAINST the wall dinged the paint.  

It’s all about being courteous yet firm, pointing out the ‘oopsies’ and gently nudging them to remember our agreement on house rules.Resolution Time: If the guests go radio silent or aren’t playing ball, I head over to the resolution center.

I've dealt with this on two other occasions but every insurance claim and renovation has it's different twist & turns.

Not sure why you chose to twist my examples around.     

as we gently settle into the golden years  :)  Looks like the fly fishing is going to be a  focus  and US travel and Canada. things tend to focus around the grand kids these days..

And they do not see or realize it because they friggin REFUSE to use logic, intelligence and common sense.When people see some stranger calling them out and telling them "you are doing it wrong" they go on the defensive, get insulted and retaliate instead of shutting the hell up, step back see the logic in the writings and admit.. wait a sec.. this monkey is annoying BUT he has a point, and LEARN change adapt.I would have happily entertained your reservations and concerns, but I suggest learn how to approach and express politely with respect like a human being and don't get your panties all twisted up when your unwarrented snarky responses get you a fiery answer back!

Thanks for not trying to twist what i was intending to convey, and i think you got right to the soul of the entire thing.

In general, house hacking is a gentle and rewarding way of get into REI. 1br SFHs are not worth it, the rental and purchase pools are much smaller.