How do you file an eviction with the county, get rent payment, and keep repeating it over and over?
I used to never read the forums, but it seems to inundated with stories like yours. Properties within reach for the normal income folks appear to be C neighborhoods, and attract nothing but crap tenants.
I want to say, "sold a lie" about the Dream of passive investing, but it's our own fault for not doing due diligence. Of course, bad luck is a factor, also.
From the outside, I'm sure you and your spouse hate the idea of being landlords, and wish you could rewind the entire decision.
I have a hunch that she's going to move in next door, should you successfully evict her. And then, they're going to cause hell for you for another year.
Sorry to hear that you're bleeding out money. Someone is making money in this game, but it's the flippers, and those selling the dream. All that being said, I do believe there's passive income available in real estate, but it requires A and B properties, and multi-family, such as whole complexes.