@Kevin Yoo - I am glad you liked my post and appreciate the vote. I realize that my post could come across as a bit self-centered, but my focus was on answering the question… “What Qualities Do You Look For In A Coach/Mentor?” So I tried to answer the question strictly on that point of view.
Putting myself in a mentor’s place, I would want to work with someone who has an equal desire to learn, and a goal in their journey. The person I mentor would need to work alongside me as a partner. By taking on a partner role. This person would learn by doing and asking questions. For many of us, when we graduate from college, we begin the learning process all over again. The work environment provides real life problem solving, and work experience. My role as a mentor would be to provide direction and support, much like a trainer at a company or a journeyman to an apprentice. I would not want to bother trying to teach someone who does not want to put in work and effort.
As I mentioned in my post, it would be great if we all had a "Mr. Miyagi" type investor appear and help us become his/her protégé without putting money up front. But even Daniel had to wax all of Mr. Miyagi's cars, as a way of compensating while learning basic moves. What I have seen with paid mentors, is (a) The high upfront cost, (b) No reasonable financing, and (c) No creative approach to making the training more attainable. In other words, many (not all) will offer training but won't consider compensation via partnered deals. Most of my local guru's will only partner with you, if you spend $10k and up. One of them will partner with you after spending $10k, then sells you on using his VA and other products. Another common trait I see with many of the guru/mentors (especially the local one's), is how they generalize everyone's unique circumstance. Basically, if you can't buy into their program, then you lack ambition. It's funny to see how quickly some of the students who follow these guru's will shun you, when you are seen as someone who can't buy into the program. You are instantly categorized as a tire kicker or someone who does not take action. I can only speak for my own circumstances. At the end of the month, I am responsible for two households… mine, and the one my children reside in, as I am a struggling separated dad. My responsibilities simply come first. I don't think my landlord would be too understanding if I told him I could not pay the rent because I was taking a guru course! Lol!
I can understand your views on the possibilities that could come from taking on a student. Like you said, the ambition may not be as strong as anticipated. As there are many ways to invest in real estate, a potential student needs to understand the pro’s and con’s behind the basic strategies. Not everyone wants to be a landlord. Not everyone wants to be a flipper. Not everyone wants to be a full time marketer (wholesaler and lease options). A student who works with a mentor who specializes in flipping, may discover that they don’t like that type of investing. Unfortunately, it may simply be a mismatch for that particular student/mentor scenario.
Finally, to answer your question… I am looking to close some deals initially with help from my mentor. I am also looking to build a solid relationship with my mentor, where it does not end when my mentorship ends. Ideally we all learn from each other. My goal would be to learn and close deals with my mentor, start closing my own deals as well, and have an ongoing partnership with my mentor. For me, it would be an ongoing relationship.