Hey Jack! First of all, I am so sorry for your loss of a family member. Second of all, congrats on the savings! That's a really impressive amount of money to have saved at such a young age. Third of all, what a good question.
I grew up in Oregon and hated the weather with a passion. I always wanted to live in California, so when I got the opportunity at 22 years old to move for work down here I jumped at the chance. I LOVE living in California and am so glad I didn't spend a second longer than I did being miserable in a state that I didn't feel was a good fit for me any more.
We ended up buying a single family househack 4 years after moving to California where we still live as I type this. Living in the home has helped us save on our monthly mortgage payemtns and we've been able to buy Airbnbs because of it!
I turn 30 years old this year and as I'm starting to reflect on my 20's I am soooo grateful that I made the decision to say "f**k it" and take a huge risk in moving to an expensive city not knowing what the future held.
You're still so young and there's this constant battle I feel like people that are young AND responsible like yourself go through. Which is; deciding if you 1) sacrifice now, to build yourself a better future, or if you 2) take advantage of your youth (considering you will never be this age EVER AGAIN) and do what makes you truly happy.
I think there's a balance you can strike between those two things, and it starts with you living where you want to - because weather makes such a huge difference on our happiness, joy, productivity, and overall quality of life. BUT if you move back to California, consider buying something, even if it's a 2 bedroom condo, and rent out whatever extra space you have to a roommate. This will kickstart your home onwership AND landlording career at the same time!
I know this is super lengthy response, but your question really struck a cord in me (in a good way) and I wish you the absolute best in whatever path you choose! :)