@Chris Gordon - incompetence of wholesalers?
Yes incompetent if:
1. Offers more than reasonable comps / zestimate because that’s the “lowest price” the seller will agree to take and they are unable to negotiate them down (as you were)
2. Unwilling to drop contract immediately after noticing the contract needs a price reduction due to condition of the property (inspections) or lack of buyer interest (namely because they got it under contract for too much)
3. Unable to guide the buyer partner through to closing. Agreed to a deal with a newbie flipper who didn’t have the cash money to buy it from them and/or was likely to get skiddish.
Not totally incompetent if:
1. Buyer partner dropped the contract last minute, potentially forfeiting some non refundable deposit. Wholesaler is unable to negotiate an extension so they exit before their contingency expires
2. Talked to seller multiple times to reduce the price and seller did not agree until push came to shove and they needed the money asap. I’ve talked to many sellers who are like, I won’t sell this for a dime less than $400k, but if they died their heirs would sell it for $200k tomorrow.
Ultimately here the sellers lost big. It’s likely that you got a great deal. The sellers probably could have had a better outcome selling through an agent as is at let’s say 1/2 of the price they were offered by buyer 1. But ultimately you profited by them selling to you last minute at 1/4 price. And you provided a necessary and valuable service, and convenience, by offering to buy their property and then closing as you said you would.
I have plenty of conversations with sellers who take a higher offer and then circle back with me later because I’m a real buyer. Or they even sell for a lower price (if I’m not following up) to someone else because they never messaged me again. (For example, I offered $200k cash, they take an offer at $250k cash but that never closes, and they sell for $180k cash 3 - 6 months later without messaging me again.)