Hello Jaden! I'll give you my opinion based on these qualifications. I graduated from college way back in 1980 with honors and I did that in business with real estate mainly because was doing well in licensed brokerage get in commercial sites mainly. I figured out it was not so simple and who you know was very important and at that time I did not have that so I ended not doing real estate and got into construction management and, thank God my father got me that interview and I must have given them desire and I worked their for 7 years and enjoyed the hell of it.
I was so impressive that there I had several jobs from estimating construction to a funding control officer because that owner bought a S&L and stopped only building condos and included very aggressive lending and eventually got shut down by our government in 1987cand I lost my job when they did. Thankfully back then you could go to college without going into debt and I had enough credits to get a broker license in Texas where I kept it for about 30 years. The only 3 other jobs I got were with, use to be, fellow employees and I ran 2 of those companies and moved onto having my own companies
I never did real estate full time but kept up with that and what was happening in and around Dallas from my dad and my licensed brother. I will follow that up by saying you should do what you like. I was into construction around Dallas for about 30 years. If it wasn't for my brain aneurism and stroke at 54 years old I'd probably still be doing that but it has almost been about 9 years since that happened and I still cannot walk, drive, and work ever since but I've been learning a lot about real estate investing, sales, and businesses.
I believe college is good today for learning to become a specialist, like Doctors and Lawyers and maturity. Architecture is not one of those unless you know somebody that will help you get into that business. An Architect I met early on was a great man and I enjoyed being around him and learning from his knowledge. My daughter, that just graduated from the University of Arkansas as a chemical engineer but that school charged us $6,000 a semester but we did not take on any long term debt. My wife being a computer programmer helped.
My daughter went from struggling in high school to doing well at the Univesity of Arkansas. Besides doing better and working as a tutor for them, she matured greatly. That might be the biggest advantage she acquired while there. She lived well and got many experiences while there may be the biggest advantage and she now w or is for a company that prints money for the U.S. and lives by herself after we lost her mother to cancer about 6 weeks ago. She has done much for us in the past 10 months without any negativity fights with us.
I hope some of my past experience can help you and allow you to make the right decision. That debt cannot be saved by bankruptcy. Learn as much as you can because education goes on forever an.keeps you above most others and makes you have a higher value over most others. Only you can justify going to college and the benefits you could experuence. I learned when I was in Apartment maintenance when 19 I decided to get a better education and not keep doing that or similar jobs like that for life and that was the main reason I went back to college. Soon after going back and struggling in high school that I was smarter than most other college students and could resist all of the partying that went on and caused several friends from graduating because they could not resist that and concentrate on learning instead.
It was a little hard to do but a phone call from my dad each week helped me too. He kept encouraging me to not quit and it helped me complete that ambition. If debt wasn't now a part of it makes my thought about college going harder. I have to say that it can help you to stay in college but the debt you have to live with makes that decision more difficult. There's several things that should be important factors, like maturity and learning versus your real goals, where you live and live with as well as your own character and how others can help you in real estate from money ownership and experience. Which style you are interested in and whether you're passionate, disciplined, and creative.
What you may gain by going or not going depend on how you might benefit or not. Educated people today are in higher demand. Your hometown growth might affect your decision. Do you see any opportunities there? Are there any people that can help you. It's not be an easy decision to make. There are many factors. Just do what you like and only listen and pay attention to those that have experience in one of those fields. Their opinions may count the most. Be careful on taking any advice from your family because they maybe brainwashed by taking any risk or misguided risk.
Good luck to you!