@Michael Frattallone
I wouldn’t call Lima a private lender at all
The private money lenders I use won't loan to anyone they have a vetting process or need to know you in person. That being said there is nothing stopping you from attending IRA meet ups that deal with self directing IRA/401k account. These are private lenders that are have money and need to invest it to gain a return. Also RE meetups have a lot of investors that use private money.
It’s not hard to find them but you will have to do the leg work. Also the lender I use the most at first wouldn’t lend to me because I hadn’t meet him yet. So I used another investor “say investor b” that wrapped the loan for a 1% spread. I paid investor b and they paid investor A until I refined out and paid investor a his money back. Now investor A deals with me direct and cash comes in a under a week. Most of the time it’s full purchase and rehab money for that deal. This just being straight interest only loans