@Philip Smith wow everyone posted really great advices...... My husband and my best friends husband were both so against us investing in realestate. I talked to my husband on numbers over and over again why this was a great investment.... blah blah and he was still so against it but. One day it just clicked with him and the same for my friend’s husband but it was also because the house that I bought when I was single did very well for us.
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I am a risk taker and I would personally tel u to take the equity out and go for it!! But you really should do through research, have some savings Incase something happens...... etc..... but without risk, how can you make any money? But do your due diligence to the T to mitigate risk.
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One thing I do have to say though, I have purchased several properties and have been attached to every single one of them. I think this is bad.... you’ll always be able to get another amazing property. Now, I try to be very logical with my properties, meaning if the numbers don’t work they gotta go~~~ if I was a millionaire, I’ll keep them all, but I am not there yet. Personally, I would run the numbers with your wife carefully and explain to her that u can get better bigger house later when u become a millionaire, if your keeping the house solely because of attachment to me it’s not the wise thing to do..... and u also need to factor your current financial situation.... if the house is causing u to live paycheck to paycheck without providing u the means to save or create stress, that house is probably not a good house for u.