Welcome to the forums! The best path is the one that works for you. For me, it was house hacking. I bought a foreclosed house, lived in it while I flipped it, and then sold it for a profit. Later I did it with a two flat which I kept to rent out. Now, it brings me income every month. Not enough to live off of, but with more it will be. You won't get rich enough to quit your day job with one deal.
If I were you, I'd try to buy a multifamily that's closer to your job that you can fix up. Let your tenant pay the mortgage. You can learn some home repair tricks on youtube, hire pros for other things you can't fix. Painting, drywall, some flooring, plumbing, and electrical will take you a long way.
Also, now is a great time to look for a new job. Lots of places are hiring. Even if it means taking a small pay cut, if you don't like your job, it may be worth it to find something you'll enjoy more or won't actively dislike. If you can get something salaried with a W-2, the banks will be much easier to deal with for getting loans.