We'll see if this is helpful or not. Here's our breakdown.
We pay for Owner Rez ($35) to manage between VRBO, Airbnb & our direct booking site. It also automatically sends out our legal agreement.
Pricelabs ($35) for our pricing data. Not a ton of monthly costs.
When a guest books, I send a quick reply message. I do cut & paste the link to the legal agreement from owner rez in this message so it's not 100% automated. This takes about 2 minutes even if I'm on my phone to go to owner rez, copy the link & then to Airbnb to paste it into the quick reply.
I add the guest info to my cleaning calendar, 1 minute. We can integrate this into owner rez to happen automatically but I just haven't done this yet.
Then I enter the guests door code into my Schlage app, about another 2 minutes.
While the guest are staying in our home, they may have some questions. This is guest-dependent but most guests are pretty easy. For an average guest stay, I have maybe 5-10 minutes messaging back and forth.
Our cleaner shows up & clean the property, we do not need to spend time arranging this. Occasionally we have to deal with an issue or a maintenance item. On average, this is maybe 15-30 minutes per month.
Once the guest leaves we review them, 2 minutes.
All this is to say that self managing is not hard, costly or labor intensive.
More importantly, you need to make the decision that's right for you. It's good to ask these questions to get different perspectives so that you can feel comfortable with your decision.
For me, I love hospitality. I love guest feedback. I love ownership (of my home & my outcome). Real Estate, finances, interpersonal skills & handy maintenance skills are all in my wheelhouse so it's not hard for me. Plus, I want the material participation for Cost Seg reasons...
I can't imagine any reason why I would pay someone else ~ $1k per month to do all of this for me.
Hopefully this helps a bit for perspective...