@Jason Malyon
Typically whole life insurance is not a very efficient use of money. Cash accumulates very slowly and the premiums are pretty high. Retirement annuities are a great source of monthly income, but you do pay for the ease of handing over cash and getting a guaranteed monthly paycheck down the road. In your situation I would do the following:
1) Get term life insurance. At your age (assuming you are healthy) we are talking $250k-$500k can cost $15-$50 per month.
2) Re-adjust your budget to live off of only one of your salaries. Try to reduce expenses, pay down, debt, etc. so you can live on your salary alone. This will free up your wife's salary for retirement savings, investing, and building a financial cushion for a stress free life down the road. You may think it is hard to do, but remember live like no one else today so you can live like no else can tomorrow.
3) Create an estate plan that covers all of your bases. If you create the plan early than you have a long time to build it to meet your needs in the future.
Hope this helps,
Allen Fletcher