I have non qualified stock options through my W2 employer now that has potential in about 5-8 years to exercise.

Frankly it takes years to get this stuff down and no one knows it all not even lawyers :). 

Could be a nice AirBNB studio with income potential up to $1500/mo by itself.

Payments that you make normally fall into one of 3 buckets100% of the payment can be factored in somewhere on the returnPartial payment can be factored somewhere on the return0% of the payment can be factored in somewhere on the returnHouse-hacking also has considerable tax implications in the event that you want to sell this property.You can potentially defer a portion or all of the gain on the investment property with 1031 exclusion.You can potentially exclude a portion or all of the gain on the personal residence with section 121 exclusion.

We also host meetups about every 2-3 months in Norfolk that typically has 40-60 people show up every time, and would love to expand that number so everyone has the opportunity to network with their potential next business partner.

Even if you buy a property right you can lose potential profit by not managing the rehab effectively.

I would first find a market that is suitable for you and showing signs of potential market growth.

A lawyer that I know highly recommends him for SDIRA CPA stuff.

Metal buildings will be easiest and most cost effective but you need to research your market to make sure you build the right configuration for the potential use and prospective tenant.

If you have a lender they will stop it before foreclosure but by that point lawyers are involved and the cost will be close to what it would be to redeem it in the 1st place.