I arranged my schedule so I worked couple hours in the morning during my daughters nap time, home with the family for lunch then worked a couple more hours in the afternoon. 

They are so disorganized, I need to arrange a call every week to set out a list of what needs to be taken care of.

And that's fine... people who want to take a more passive role in working toward their goals should figure out some other kind of arrangement.

I’m interested in ‘sweat equity’ arrangements: reduced up-front cost/risk for the syndication team by deferring architectural fees, in exchange for a preferred or common equity position.Example: I’m currently helping an apartment owner boost NOI by converting an oversized leasing center into 3 additional units and a right-sized leasing office.And, I want to buy, improve, and operate my own rental properties.

We applied for the refi with Better.com, as they're one of few lenders who will accept Airbnb income and I explained our somewhat unique arrangement to my first point of contact, including sending her photos by way of this article about our home.

@Kam Mill I would arrange a home inspection ASAP.

Chances are what's hers is your and what's yours is hers now that you are married unless you had a pre-nup or some similar arrangement. 

I want to get stayed in real estate, and I have been contemplating doing a refi on mortgage, but given fluctuation income over the last couple of years, I've been worried I may not qualify.

Please notify us when you are out so we can arrange a time to pick up the keys and inspect the unit.We wish you the best in your future endeavors.Landlord

They can work out their arguments and living arrangements on their own.