@Travis Paez Not familiar with Baltimore area, but when I was first beginning I called nearly all the "Community" banks and credit unions in my target area to discuss what they could and could not do (loan minimums, number of financed properties, rates, down payment, etc.) knowing that "big banks" don't typically like to work with small time/beginner investors.Many did not offer what I was looking for or able to accommodate me, but was referred to a lender (from a competing credit union nonetheless) that I had not seen or heard of and voila, they were exactly the type of lender I was looking for and now I have a great relationship with them. 

@rene martinez  @brandon sturgillTwo books that comprehensively cover the 55 to 80 year age groups are Marketing to Leading-Edge Baby Boomers by Brent Green and the No BS Guide to Marketing Boomers & Seniors by Dan Kennedy.  

I'm really sorry Tim that my excruciating (and painful to recall) details cannot make up for your lack of comprehension.

We did make a lot of design changes to accommodate him as the home was a total rehab & we knew ahead of time the challenges he would be facing.

A classic chestnut (dated but comprehensive) is Landlording by Leigh Robinson, for example...  

I can honestly say it was worth every penny.Ben's program gives you a super comprehensive overview of real estate from just about every angle I can think of: Economic, Financial, Technical, Tax, Creative, Long-term Planning, etc.

While I am not suggesting you try any sort of "shakedown", I do think it's reasonable for you to ask for some compensation for accommodating her and getting her butt out of the fire.

This tenant is very hard to accommodate because of their work schedule and they always want to be home whenever anyone is doing work in the house so I have always tried to accommodate them.

Also look at Scottmans guide that's a pre comprehensive list of lenders all over the country and what they lend on etc..

However, the most comprehensive is the 'Best Ever Apartment Syndication Book' by Joe Fairless.