What are your thoughts on this and how would you design your card in my situation?

Do you have any one to gift the money to you?

The court Order will designate who property is to be transferred to (you). 

My in laws are gifting me with 50k to invest in real estate.

One benefit of attending paid seminar education as opposed to trying to find it all free in books/websites/asking questions in forums, etc. is that the Paid seminars, when designed by a master of their craft (the craft you're expecting to learn), is designed to provide the information in a step by step methodical approach which helps with comprehension.I did not attend Than's, but I did attend Russ Whitney's a few years ago for roughly $13,000.  

It’s very beautiful, helpful and already has all of the sections designed.

Found this CRT case study you might like on the Planned Giving Design Center.

I've dealt with planners before, that's why you need an architect or designer at minimum to "translate", most of them don't have the time to explain things to you, and you need to be more professional with your questions, I don't think he was unhelpful, he just feels that he could not understand your words as they were too broad.

I feel that a letter or number designation is too ambiguous.

I currently work at Redfin where I design software for home buyers and agents.