I live in a smaller and older suburb of Fort Worth where I am less likely to get tracked down (I see evidence of work on properties all around me that are clearly not permitted or up to code), but also know that the specs on the house will change with the appraisal district once I get the property refinanced. 

I live in S pringville, UT.

Did they buy it as an investment or to live in?

I live in a newly constructed town home (2 years old) - I've had rodent problems for the past year with mice scratching the walls and making entry into the home.

When you sell your primary (living there 2 of the last 5 years), you don't make taxes on the first 500k of profit.

She pulled permits and lives there full time now!

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I live in a tenant friendly state hence the tenant normally wins under the circumstances unless you have evidence to back up your claim. 

You can either do an income based loan underwritten by your income and supported by financial documents or a DSCR loan if an investment property you don't live in. 

We met in 2019 while we were both living in the Detroit area.