They became an expert in their particular trade, then learned everyone else jobs.  

What this tells me is that there are so many pathways to success and if you stay at it and keep your head up you will eventually find the path that fits you.I am not an expert, but I invite those who can contribute more or expand on this topic to do so because I think there are hidden topics like this one that can help so many who could use the encouragement. 

Interesting how many experts on Seattle there are here who don't live in Seattle, or other markets they are commenting on, for that matter.

@Kurt KlineSorry about that then, but I am not an expert on 401K/IRA investing.I would say a regular savings account would be good.

:DIf you are still passionate, use your reading and listening to become an expert. 

Estate planning is really very specific and personal so you may be able to get some ideas here, but ultimately you will have to sit down with a subject matter expert and work out what is best for you.I plan to revisit my plan every couple of years and make sure it is still set up to accomplish what I want it too.

Become an expert on multiple strategies and all the nuances. 

Good job on learning from the experts!

Most of our property owners are from the Boston area though, so they tend to be experts at navigating Cape traffic to get here :)

Dan DietzNot an expert but generally speaking you could loan him money (i.e. be the bank) for a property he would own fully, or with someone else that was NOT a prohibited party (like your dad) but you would not be able to own any of it because you would be loaning money to yourself from your IRA which is prohibited.He can then do the exact same thing for you.Basically you can both own a property with the other ones IRA being the lien holder.