Wouldn't it bother them that I'm trying to contact them every week?

I would like to pull equity from it, but cannot find a lender, mainly because it's "too small of a loan to bother with". 

The hump really doesn’t bother me all that much, maybe I’m overthinking it.

The GC never even bothered to try and caulk the doors.

Don't bother asking for retroactive increases - they won't do it.

I’ve not much to offer except passion and a thirst for knowledge but it seems the realtors (whom are also investors) don’t really want to be bothered with my plethora of questions.

The cf is enough for most of us to not have to bother. 

Yes because of the HOA fees and rules, but also because then you are competing directly with the hotels so like @Jake Knight said why bother?

I'd say next time, don't bother asking for input...... 

Thomas, you are so far in the weeds on this topic, I won't even bother to address specific concerns, other than the fact that private lending is far more complex than most understand from a distance, and completely devastating to an investment when done improperly.