This information can also be looked up by any real estate agent you befriend (buy them lunch and promise them your next listing).For sellers, google and then call all the REO agents and short sale specialists in your area.

Since I pay these fees in my deals I just tell the occasional seller that objects that if he wants to pay the fees then I have no objections to his selecting the title or escrow company, and guess how many sellers have taken me up on that ?

And part of that is trying to objectively calculate the value of what you are trying to get from the other party.  

Shiny object syndrome took over! 

Consider your location objections carefully, but if those numbers hold up I'm sure I would do it.Good luck,Randy

I would examine what your primary objective is and make the decision from there.

I am currently Active Duty Air Force and I am an avionics specialist.

Your objective is only to make the deal work for you at the best possible bargain for you.

You will find lots of information and many that share  your objectives.  

How do I handle that objection being that I'm new and if I'm only selling my contact to another buyer ???