I am 20 years old, a psychology major, I was born and raised in Bend, OR.

And if a tenant brings in a beautiful Rolls Royce and has it untagged in the driveway , it will be towed .If I start bending on the rules where do I stop ?

We learned this the hard way by going a little out of way and bending a little for a tenant in a situation the exact same as this.

We thought by bending over backwards it would make the tenant happier.

If you can't even meet me on the terms I have set to show the house, there is a high likely hood you will not be able to meet me on my other terms ($$$).I'm not saying there is never a time to bend when scheduling times to show a unit, but if I am already being asked to inconvenience myself so that the tenant doesn't get inconvenienced, then I am OUT.I told her to call my wife to schedule for Sunday after she acquiesced.

@ben D.

I did close to the same.In development, the most mind bending aspect, we began with the chart of accounts in the accounting system.

They have a right to be there, but you do not need to bend over backward to accommodate their schedule.  

We may feel, well we're doing a good deed, by bending over backwards to help our tenants by picking up the rent, or little things, but in actuality you are not helping to make the tenant be a responsible individual, but instead are being an "enabler"  to rely on others to do this or that for them.  

We sold a condo and bought a brand new townhouse in December 2014  in Bend Oregon.