You'll want to have evidence to demonstrate that.  

I’ve only posted truthful comments supported by evidence.

Start with the big Five;1 - Roof2 - Foundation3 - Plumbing4 - Electrical5 - HVAC6 - Pests (Termites) not part of the big five, but one I always look for any evidence

The fact that you are receiving option money, and entering into a sales contract, within a few months of buying the property, and to the first "tenant" in the property, is self evident that it was a flip and not intended for long term holding.

If there was basement water intrusion, was this addressed by the seller and now evidence of water damage remains or was there active water intrusion? 

If you told him you have been playing pickup games for the past year and need help improving your jump shot, now he has evidence you're motivated and a specific goal he can quickly help you work towards.

I don't think there's any evidence based on this thread that Wendell is a scammer.

Which is in part my fault, I need to enforce some sort of "must be this tall to play" policy that consists of an amount of capital (evidence of past work/savings/success at some point in life). 

Should coat you $100 for the LLC to do yourself online and about $300 for the attorney.Mortgage company won’t do anything about it, if they call the note due you could always refinance with another vendor but I could never find evidence of it being called due.

If someone can't convince another on the merits of facts and logic, they repeat rhetorical opinions, no offense intended but your position is failing without evidence.