I don't want to win so they lose, I don't need the money that badly. 

If there is a counterattack as you say then you are creating a win/lose and you will find that strategy will build you a bad reputation and ruin your business.

Win, win. 

Win for everyone.As far as specifics on the final offer terms, if you are buying from an investor you should ask them what they are going to do with the proceeds and then see if you can offer an interest rate that is better for the investor that is also safer being backed by the property.

Win.

Can you give some advice on how to present the Arbitrage plan to a prospective client to show it is a win-win situation?

This is the toughest thing I find to understand...how to structure a deal in a way that is a win for the lender and a win for you as you do all the work.Regarding the bidding war...did you just bid the highest price and that's how you landed the contract?

I would rather have this scenario, at least its a win/win... cash flow and less headaches.

@matthew   Thank you very much for your kind words, small wins are the name of the game :) 

Tri Win will take an excel list, like property radar does for us @Sean@Sean OToole, and send them all out for you.