Mostly about things I do wrong, how I correct it, and the lesson I learn.

I have tried to get on the phone with Tyler to talk through this with the hopes that he can make corrections but to no avail.

You can definitely spread your cash out pretty far here using this method and scale pretty quickly with the right boots on the ground team!

From a tax implication standpoint, it can be tricky but if done correctly, not a problem.

All other SDIRA's, 401K's, traditional IRA except Roth IRA and Solo 401K Roth require tax be paid at the retirement age, do correct me if it's not true.Do you know about the Josh Gilmore (josh@sdirawealth) SDIRA wealth firm?

To your point that I haven't done what they have: You're absolutely correct.

In my view they made the correct decision and if you spent significant time recovering this cost, well I think we all know what that is. 

Does anyone have any tips on how to find the right guys or methods that you use to vet people? 

I've begun cold calling and looking to alternate methods of finding deals, but if anyone has any advice for overcoming this I'd love to connect.

You are correct, buying a four plex is tricky here putting 3.5% down.