Moreover, I qualify for an 80/20 loan with Bank of America through their community accommodation program.

It is good that your tenants are letting you know about the change in their circumstances and are asking you in advance of Feb 28 for help in accommodating their need.

I’ve been over the top nice and accommodating and she will never be happy and continues to scream at me about anything and everything she can think of.

If you use an independent escrow company they will usually accommodate double escrows.

Current State: 2-unit (2-BR 1 BA each) with unfinished basement (egress and height requirements in place) in West TownRehab Goal: 3-unit (3-BR 1 BA each) Issue: A local architect mentioned that while the property was currently zoned to accommodate 3 units with 3 BR each, I would need to create 3 parking spaces in the rear.

You should also communicate with them and let them know the scope of the work and expected timelines to minimize disruptions.Make temporary arrangements: If major work is being done, you may want to consider temporarily relocating the tenants to another unit in the building or offering them temporary accommodation elsewhere.Phase the renovation: Instead of renovating the entire building at once, you can consider renovating one unit at a time.

The home was originally a single family build, but since we had more family coming from overseas my parents built an upstairs accessory apartment 30+ years ago (with legal building permits) to accommodate all of our family.Both units have separate entrances, separate electric meters, full kitchen/bathroom, and 3 bedrooms each.

I've been accommodating Boise Investors and flipping fixers to them.

Meanwhile take some STRs to pay the bills with narrow booking window so you can accommodate the MTR when they pop up.  

You have already shown considerable accommodation, but it seems that it may have been to your disadvantage.