Sometimes the HA is unreasonable, but I think this is a little too far out, even for them.Although, you know: it is racism.

This has been very helpful.JohnHey there John,Now, I’m going to be the voice of unreason.

Nothing unreasonable or un-American about that. 

Complainers can also be unreasonable. ) Don't become a go between. 

They may have very reasonable goals and desires, or they may be totally unreasonable and unprepared to invest in an illiquid investment like real estate. 

Don't be afraid to say "no" if she is asking for something unreasonable.

If in your gut you feel like they are being unreasonable don't ignore the red flags.  

60% of gross rent isn't unreasonable, but you do have to be careful with taxes, flood insurance, etc. 

If not on website, just give them a call as a "theoretical" tenant and ask what the recourse would be if not under rent control, but rent increased significantly, or what is perceived as unreasonably...

I am happy to return her money, even though she signed a lease under certain terms that she presented herself as having childcare.Am I being unreasonable?