The only thing I would mention here is you shouldn't have anything in your lease that a court would consider unreasonable, in case you ever need to go to court.

They’re requesting what feels like an unreasonable amount of information, and the demands keep escalating.So far, they’ve asked for:A video tour of my home officeCredit checks on me and my partnerCopies of the deeds for every property we ownA copy of my partner’s home lease and utility billsBusiness phone billsA signed letter from the bank verifying our accountsBank statementsHonestly, it feels more like qualifying for a loan than trying to become a customer.

They’re requesting what feels like an unreasonable amount of information, and the demands keep escalating.So far, they’ve asked for:A video tour of my home officeCredit checks on me and my partnerCopies of the deeds for every property we ownA copy of my partner’s home lease and utility billsBusiness phone billsA signed letter from the bank verifying our accountsBank statementsHonestly, it feels more like qualifying for a loan than trying to become a customer.

You would have to be significantly cheaper than my current cleaners for me to give you a shot, because I generally have only changed cleaners for either consistent subpar work or increasing/unreasonable prices.

Another benefit is that you won't be around long term tenants who know you own the property, resent you for it and place unreasonable demands on you since they feel like they know you.

Tough issue but it's unreasonable require tenants not hang things on the wall. 

Having said that there is no unreasonable number, you never know unless you ask the question.

I don't know why you would think a tenant requesting notice before you accessed the property would be an "unreasonable demand".

$540 is not unreasonable for a home of that size and the items you mention.

If it seems excessive or unreasonable, I reach out to guest first for reimbursement, then Aircover kicks in.