When I try to keep it professional and just about the issues she is having, I'm accused of not being sensitive to her tenant needs or understanding. 

The owners don't want you there if your not working for them, you had access prior to keys and other sensitive materials so they want you gone...

the motion detector is definitely less sensitive than my home alarm.  

I wanted her to know that I was sensitive to her particular circumstances but the only way my potential partners and I could get involved was if there was a profit in the project.

Doing subject-to transactions with homeowners in foreclosure are some of the most sensitive transactions around. 

@Bruce WoodruffThe original owner about 15 years ago may have found burglar bars far more beneficial in his entertainment room ( a finished basement below bedrooms) over overly sensitive burglar alarms.By the way there are no burglar bars in the bed rooms.

Are we truly that sensitive?  

For those that qualify, it's not an interest rate sensitive loan, because the payoff timeline is so condensed.

@Fausto Carosella at that loan to value you might not even need to verify the rent depending on how rate sensitive you are.

OIG and FDA are ultra-sensitive to the *perception* of wrongdoing with companies, and many big fines have been paid to avoid full blown court actions (which could have dire financial consequences).