Derek and I were able to meet this week, and I truly enjoyed comparing notes on properties we both have looked at, as well as discovering other mutual interest and connections.I would like to see a meeting where we can invite vendors who are are already supporting our local RE group (lenders, insurance etc.).

That site will give you many different RE groups to join/visit.  

This is even after listening to podcast, asking questions on forums, joining RE groups/meetings, etc.Here are 3 steps to give you an edge.1.

The destination is always the same (helping clients achieve the dream of home ownership, to buy their dream house, or to find freedom with passive income)... but new obstacles are always arising... constantly having to regroup, "coming back to the center," learning new strategies, and new paths to that destination.  

@Danielle Thompson have you spent any time at local RE groups?  

Therefore I am looking to connect and network with fellow investors, mentors, HMLs and RE groups in the RDU area to strenghten my knowledge and skills in this realm.My interest are in flipping, buy and hold, and wholesaling.

One hour blocks, ten minute breaks, if you do an hour for lunch, some will try to leave to go somewhere and come in late, keep it to 45 minutes, 10 to chat, 30 to eat and chat and 5, to regroup helps keep everyone there.And I agree some basic info is free, getting into the meat should be at a level of fairness, if too low, it's not preceived as valuable, too much and people won't go there.

Getting a job with a business or RE group, that's an excellent idea.

Check some of the other Austin RE groups and meetups.

Locate your local RE groups via MeetUp, I've personally developed at least 4 great relationships over the past month or 2 alone (not just 4 business cards but people I can ask any dumb question I want)#5 develop your 5 to 10 year goals with real estate, this can change.