It took all my willpower to not to skip ahead to the last page as i didnt want to ruin the happy ending... damn damn damn i cant believe i went through all that and got no results...

Make sure you know yourself and can ensure you have the will power to not overspend with it.

Don that is a very tragic event I am sure he has not dealt with fully if he has turned to drugs.You can't just stop doing something.You have to replace it with something else to fill the space.WHITE KNUCKLING and WILL POWER will eventually only lead to failure.My mom worked for years and years at a violence center for women and dealt with people that had issues.You can guide them and try to show the way but at the end of the day it is their choice to want to live or die.Just take in every moment your son is present and in the moment with you and try to cherish those memories.Right now your main goal is to protect the innocent children and take away any bad modeling behavior they are witnessing that can impact them for life.When you kick a habit you have to do something else.Example: Smoking - Bike Riding,Drinking- going to church,drugs-exercise etc.Everyone has stress in their lives and that will never change.As we get older the stress does not go away it just transforms into something else.You might used to have worried about money,then it's your kids,then it's old age,mortality etc.Until your son sees a counselor to deal with these issues and learn coping skills he is going to medicate himself to not feel anything.The first few sessions of therapy is just small talk.The real work begins later on and either people commit and dig in to work on issues or say "Oh I am fine now and get scared and run away".Many people go to their pastor but I feel they are not qualified as a drug abuse specialist or a licensed therapist to help them with situations like that.Don you don't control your son but YOU DO control how you react to what he does and how it impacts your life and family.Maybe you feel guilty for him seeing his mom go through that and enabled him out of guilt to make yourself feel better in the moment.All you can do everyday is work on yourself.If you do that you can have a positive impact on him that can do nothing but help.

As @Angel Dejesus has mentioned, the easiest way for a multifamily property to begin going solar is to install an array that will power the common electric usage, or if the entire property is master metered. 

Good luck Stephen : )  Having a supportive realtor and mentor is a big plus but honestly, its the will power to figure sh't out that makes it happen. 

Recently read "Willpower Doesn't Work" by Benjamin Hardy.

I heard if you plug a generator into the electrical outlet it will power anything on that breaker.

So if you pay down a little on each loan there is no benefit till one or all of the loans are paid off because even the last payment will still be your min monthly payment from a month to month cash flow perspective.From a psychological point of view paying one off faster is also better because you can see results quicker and it will take less mental will power to push forward paying the 2nd, 3rd, and so on because your mind will see results from the first one relatively quick if you focus.Hope that helps.

There is no secret that alot of people with successful real estate careers also had successful work careers because people who succeed in real estate also often have the willpower to succeed at multiple things.

At the end of the day your work ethic, drive, tenacity, etc. will power you through almost anything.