I stopped into a barber shop and the lady asked me for my phone number.

Nights, weekends, holidays, etc.To keep this on-topic, though...DO figure out what's healthy for you to manage but remember it's a process where every experience teaches you good and bad (and be patient with that process).DON'T sweat the small stuff (damage/costs under $50, undisclosed dogs, etc.) but DO find a way to learn, prevent, put in better practices to maintain your sanity. 

@Lulu LueHUD has 2 online databases of lenders showing which ones have the most experience with 203k's. 

I’d recommend shopping around with different DSCR lenders and considering lenders who specialize in investment properties for more flexible terms and options.Good luck with your investing journey!

The information provided is for general knowledge based on my experience and should not be considered tax or legal advice.

@Michelle Wang, I completely understand your frustration, and I want to say that you are not alone in this experience.

I have experience with minor to medium size rehabs but nothing as extensive as needed here.

I would recommend talking to many lenders/brokers to see which one has the most experience funding these loan types. 

Does anyone have any experience (or know someone or a company that might) be able to demo a concrete staircase Ana turn it into a driveway and ADU ramp ?

Does anyone have any experience with using an FHA 203k Loan on a multi and turning it into a house hack in Massachusetts?