So, from an objective perspective, this thread seems to have gotten off track. Maybe we can all take a step back and put some perspective on what Lucas is proposing...
For starters, he isn't "flipping" these properties himself, so he's not actually doing out of state property flips. He is apparently lending his money in a Gap Financing position to this woman (or her associates) from the sound of it. So we're assuming she's going to lever up as much as she can with a first position loan and then utilizing Lucas' $30K to gap the down payment and/or repairs. Does that sound about right @Lucas Mills?
If that is the case, then okay, she is offering you what appears to be solid 'pref' and a taste of the profits, which is standard for a passive gap lender. It's also not unusual for flippers doing deals in volume to use Gap Lenders and giving those lenders sizable returns for their risky investment. These types of JV structures happen between flippers and lenders all the time...but it's important to know that is exactly what we're talking about here, because if it's anything else, then yes, it would raise many concerns.
And even if this IS what we are talking about, then you're going to want to feel extremely comfortable with her as a flipper, and more specifically, as your partner., because that's really what she is here. This is a Joint Venture of sorts, which makes you partners, especially since you are participating in the profit.
Strongly suggest you take that four hour drive, meet her in person, meet the entire team, see her previous flips (numbers on those flips) she has completed, and know exactly what you are getting yourself into. AND make sure you collateralize your money appropriately if you ultimately decide to move forward with her.
Best of luck!