As someone who also has been lining up all my ducks in a neat little row for the past year, let me tell you how I'm breaking in to the game.
First....shoot the damn ducks.
If you don't have the basics of a wholesale deal down, my suggestoin would be to listen to Sean Terry's podcast and download his e-book at flip2freedom.com (ok so I'm biased)
Next, read the book Think and Grow Rich and follow it to the letter. Do whatever you need to get your head right and get over whatever fear you have. I'm serious when I say this is the MOST important step. Once all fear is gone, the rest is simple. (not easy, but simple)
If you don't have a marketing budget, save money until you can send at least 500 yellow yellers or 1000 postcards a month.
Attend your REIA and get a list of the people that are looking for deals. I guarantee a few of them would be willing to go on some appointments with you to split your first few deals. They could help you negotiate, fill out contracts, deal with title companies, and buy your deal. (there goes about 90% of your fear)
decide what list you want to mail (probate, inheritence, absentee, pre-forclosure, etc). buy names from listsource,melissadata, etc. Learn how to filter the search on BP before purchasing.
get google voice number, send it to your cell
get a po box
read the stickies on BP about 2%/50% rules in landlording forum. learn it.
learn how to evaluate ARV and estimate repairs. contact a realtor for accurate comps. give them leads you can't work with
contact hard money lenders in your area (they'll be at your reia). If the perfect deal comes along and it's paint and carpet it will be better to make 20k than 5k
get a seller lead sheet. get some ideas on how to build rapport while filling it out. learn about making soft pass offers on the phone. come up with "fear of loss" questions and a way to show a seller what they'd net if they listed their house
sign up at highrise.com for a free account up to 250 contacts. put buyers and sellers in it.
Write the letters or buy the letters/postcards
mail them
take calls
make deals
hear the lamentation of the women.
(written out like this is seems pretty damn easy neh?)
p.s. I'm about to send out my first batch of letters I'm super excited.